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Revamp?

2012-02-12T17:40:00.004-05:00

NYFW is upon us and I can't help but be slightly jealous of all the fabulous New York bloggers who get to attend! I love my small intimate readership and the fact that I feel like I know a little something about all of you... but sometimes we all get a little green-eyed, no?

ANYWAY.

If you haven't noticed the new header/sidebar, I'm trying to revamp a little around here. Feedback is VERY much appreciated. I'm liking my header, but not so much the buttons... And I'm wondering if I should keep it all a little more minimalistic?

Hmmm.

tee - Jacob (2011); vest - Old Navy (2010); necklace - Smart Set (2010);
leggings - Jacob (2011); boots - Roxy (2011)

Back Again

2012-02-10T10:41:00.000-05:00

"Hell, I need you. I’m a mess without you. I miss you so damn much. I miss being with you, I miss being near you. I miss your laugh. I miss your scent; I miss your musk. When this all gets sorted out, I think you and me should get an apartment together."
- Champ Kind, Anchorman

Pretty much sums up my feeling lately towards the blogosphere.

I know I've been MIA for a while. I tend to manage stress poorly, have mini break downs, go into hiding, and resurface much later a healthier, saner, person. Thanks for sticking around.

So I'm back! And with a vengeance!
... or at least a new outfit.

I was fortunate enough to get some gift certificates for Christmas (oh god, that seems like eons ago now!) and managed to snag a few new items. I'm still technically playing by the rules... I just have more inventory to go through now!

striped tee - Smart Set (2011); draped knit vest - Smart Set (2011);
pants - Max/Miley (2009); boots - Roxy (2011)

Feeling "Blah"

2012-01-04T11:41:00.002-05:00

Just popping in to say I'll be MIA for a while.
To keep a long story short, I was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder and depression when I was 14, and while I'm generally good at controlling my panic attacks, about once a year I have a full on melt down.
I'm currently in the midst of one now, and they usually last a week or two.
I haven't disappeared, I just need some "me" time.

If anyone has had similar experiences and knows of coping mechanisms & what not, I'd love to hear them.

2011: A Year of Outfits

2011-12-31T08:37:00.002-05:00

With 2012 just around the corner, I thought I'd take a look back at some of my favorite outfits from the past 12 months.

I rang in the new year with a blogger swap :) That gorgeous Betsey Johnson number on the right was a part of my haul. While it hasn't made another appearance on the blog to date, seeing it in my closet makes me smile.

February was a tough month for me, full of decisions to make dramatic life changes. I think I tried to reflect "strength" in my outfits by attempting to toughen up my look while still sticking with the girly accents I love like frills.

March consisted of more girly essentials like full skirts and sheer details. This month I focused on reconnecting on a deeper level with some amazing girl friends. I could have never gotten through that period without you ladies!

April was amazing. I got settled in my brand new house, and met the man of my dreams unexpectedly. The outfit on the left is actually what I wore on our first date :)

Yay for the warm weather finally moving in! I practically lived in skirts last spring, and these are just a few of my favorites! I welcomed a new member into my family last May too, my gorgeous little pug Coco.

More tough decisions this month! Although I had new expenses (love you Coco, but jeez, you get pricey sometimes!), I threw caution to the wind and decided to leave my "safe" job.

New job, new challenges, and a whole new level of awesome. I lived it up last summer with lots of BBQs with family and good friends.

August involved a wonderful trip to Seaside Heights and New York City with my man. Posting was sporadic, but you stuck with my anyway... thanks lovers!

Amazing times in September. I vowed to get a few last wears out of some of my favorite summer pieces, and had the privilege of attending Ottawa Fashion Week SS12.

Halloween hijinx and good times all around. There's something special about decorating your house for a holiday that I just loved. Oh, and I got to be blonde for a day.

In November I started my Buried Treasures Challenge, which forced me to explore the contents of my closet in new and exciting ways.

Which brings us to the end of the year... I figured you guys were having holiday outfit overload so I'm just sharing a few of my more casual looks here.

2011 was Amazeballs.
Here's looking at you 2012!

Feeling Festive

2011-12-30T15:17:00.006-05:00

I'm a tad late with this outfit, and I completely failed at taking outfit pictures on Christmas day, but the plan is to re-adorn myself and share them before taking off on the 7th.
We all know how much my blog promises are worth though... I apologize ahead of time!

This outfit is from the 15th of December... it feels like forever ago now! We had our intimate staff party at The Shore Club, a gorgeous place downtown. Believe it or not, I was UNDER dressed, but I still love the ensemble anyway.

blouse - H&M (2011); skirt - Jacob (2010); necklace - Stella & Dot;
belt - Vintage; shoes - BCBG (2009)

Ways I've Worn this Jacob Red Pencil Skirt...

Sweet Somethings: Chewy Gingerbread

2011-12-24T09:37:00.000-05:00

I get SO MANY compliments on these little beauties. They stay deliciously chewy and freeze really well. If you end up bringing them somewhere as a sweet treat, be sure to bring a few copies of the recipe! You can find the original here.

You will Need:

2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons ground ginger
1 teaspoon baking soda
3/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon ground cloves
1/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup margarine, softened
1 cup white sugar
1 egg
1 tablespoon water
1/4 cup molasses
2 tablespoons white sugar

Directions:

Preheat oven to 350F, and cream together butter & sugar. Then beat in the rest of the "wet"ingredients.
Gradually stir the "dry" ingredients into the molasses mixture. Shape dough into walnut sized balls, and roll them in a bit of sugar, flatten slightly, and place the cookies 2 inches apart onto an ungreased cookie sheet.
Bake for 8 to 10 minutes in the preheated oven. Allow cookies to cool on baking sheet for 5 minutes before removing to a wire rack to cool completely.

Easy peasy, and super delish.
Enjoy with Egg Nog or a Hot Toddy :)

Put a Cap on It

2011-12-23T12:16:00.005-05:00

Preparations are almost complete, and Christmas vacation started a few days early.
Bliss.
Now to just sit back, relax, and let the holiday festivities unfold in front of me.
I love this time of year.
I can't wait to see family and friends, and enjoy the food, the gifts, and the fun.

knit cap - H&M (2009); knit vest - Dynamite (2009); necklace - F21 (2011);
tee - Dynamite (2010); skinnies - Smart Set (2010); boots - Thrifted (2008)

Ways I've Worn this Blue Knit Vest

Sweet Somethings: Cranberry Walnut Biscotti

2011-12-19T22:12:00.003-05:00

With Christmas only days away I've kicked my holiday baking into high gear!

This was my first attempt at biscotti and it was actually surprisingly simple.

You will need:

1/4 cup olive oil
3/4 cup white sugar
2 tsp vanilla extract
1/2 tsp almond extract
2 eggs
1 3/4 cups flour
1/4 tsp salt
1 tsp baking powder
1/2 cup dried cranberries
1 1/2 cups walnuts (or any nut you'd like!)

Directions:

You start by mixing the oil and the sugar together until you get a really creamy paste... I don't know if anyone's ever made pizzelle, but it kind of looks like that. Add the rest of your "wet" ingredients and mix well.
Next add your flour, salt, and baking powder. I like to "beat" my mixture with a fork. The dough is REALLY soft and I hate trying to un-stick it from the egg beaters.
Then add your dried fruit and nuts. I chose cranberries & walnuts, but you could use just about anything. You could even throw a little lemon or orange zest in there for some extra fruitiness!

When you're done mixing in your deliciousness, you're going to form two logs on a parchment lined baking sheet (about 2" wide by 12" long). Don't forget to wet your hands with COLD water, otherwise the batter sticks to you like mad.

Bake at 300F for about 35 minutes, or until your logs are lightly browned on top.
Let them cool down for about 15 minutes, then cut diagonally with a serrated knife into 3/4" slices. If you DON'T wait, your biscotti will turn into a crumbly mess - be warned!
Put them back in the oven for another 10 minutes, or until the sides are browned as well...

And voila! Yummy biscotti that you're not paying $2 a piece for!

Six More Sleeps!

2011-12-19T11:21:00.004-05:00

Can you believe Christmas is less than a week away? The month has just flown by!
Fortunately for me, I'm done all my shopping and only have baking left to do...
Unfortunately for me, my uncle will fly in from Atlanta this week and insist we do some last minute shopping on the 24th.
I pretend that this annoys me, but after 10 years of doing of tradition, if it didn't happen, I'd probably end up disappointed.

sunnies - Michael Kors (2011 - thanks Christine!); cardigan - Smart Set (2010);
necklace - Stella & Dot; dress - Dynamite (2010); skinnies - Gap (2010); boots - Sirens (2010)

Church Time

2011-12-14T10:27:00.002-05:00

Last night I went to mass for Santa Lucia patron Saint of the Blind.
Now I'm not a religious person - I like to think of myself as more of a spiritual individual - but I did enjoy myself. My young cousins on the other hand did not.
It reminded me so much of when I was younger and dragged to church every Sunday with my mother. I hated it. And it probably has something to do with my current dislike of organized religion. But this got me thinking about time.

When you're young, time seems to stretch on forever. You can't wait for the next day to come and you feel like it always takes an eternity to get here. Maybe that accounts for why they find church so excruciatingly long? As an adult on the other hand, time just flies. There are never enough hours in a day to accomplish everything you plan to, and you dread the next day and the additional tasks it will bring. The hour one spent in church is nothing more than a blip at this point and seems far less boring. You listen to the stories, and the time passes quickly, rendering it far more tolerable.
Does that make sense?

What I wore to church last night...

Blouse - Vintage (mine since 2008); skirt - Smart Set (2010);
tights - Hue (2010); boots - Spring (2011)

You can check out my challenge progress here.

NW: In the Navy

2011-12-12T12:57:00.005-05:00

A bit belated with my Navy... by only about 4 days, so really, in the World of Mel, that's pretty darn on-time. You're welcome :)

I'm really loving this man-sweater. Paired with skinnies and a gold chain, I think this worked out pretty well. And to think - I found this in my mom's donate pile back in the fall and never actually thought I'd wear it.

My female boss affectionately told me I look like a Japanese school girl (she meant this as a compliment! I do think I looked pretty kawaii!)... and yes, we have this kind of relationship.

sweater - ???; sheer blouse - Jacob (2010); skinnies - Gap (2010);
boots - Sirens (2010); chain - Stella & Dot (2011)

Ways I've worn this Sheer Blouse...

Also, I'm super proud to say I'm kicking ass at this shopping-ban thing. I've been VERY tempted, but in the end, will power prevailed!

Grey & Brown

2011-12-08T22:33:00.006-05:00

Neutrals week continues!
Nope, I haven't forgotten, I've just been so freaking tired lately that all I want to do when I get home is sleeeeeeeep.

It seems that no matter how much I get, I could always use more... does anyone else ever feel like this?

Anyhoo... Tuesday was Grey:

tee - Esprit (2011); cardigan - Jacob (2011);
pants - Max/Miley (2009); boots - Thrifted (2008)

And Wednesday was Brown:

tee - F21 (2011); cardigan - Jacob (2008); skinnies - Smart Set (2010);
boots - Sirens (2010)

I'll be sure to update my closet tomorrow... but right now.. you guessed it! Sleep!

BT & Black

2011-12-05T22:49:00.007-05:00

It's the beginning of Neutrals Week! (Thanks Kiki & Meg for putting this together!)

I thought it would be fun to combine this challenge with my own.

First up is Black. Easy enough.... until of course you go to get dressed and realize everything black you own is in the wash. Go team me.

blouse - Ricki's (2011); cape - LeChateau (2008); trousers - Gap (2010);
Heels - Aldo"Moos" (2010)

Other Ways I've Worn these Gap Trousers

BT: To Chop or Not to Chop?

2011-12-01T20:22:00.002-05:00

Thank you for all the beautiful comments on my last post - you made my day :)

It almost makes me want to give myself a blow out and look like a glamazon every day - but then I realized that involves waking up early and applying effort and quickly dismissed the thought.

And now I will proceed to disappoint you with slightly frump photos...

I kind of want to chop the sleeves off of this cardigan... does anyone know how I would do that with such a thick knit without completely destroying it?

cardigan - Dynamite (2008); LS tee - Old Navy (2010);
skinnies - Smart Set (2010); boots - Lime Light (2009)

Other ways I've worn this Dynamite Short Sleeved Cardi...

BT: Throw Some Glitter, Make it Rain

2011-12-01T11:58:00.003-05:00

Let the Holiday festivities begin!
Last Friday night I had the pleasure of attending my boss' annual Latke Party, and nothing says "Holidays" like a little sparkle.

I fell in love with this dress the moment I saw it. The animal print & sequins just scream "MEL!" I ended up changing into nude tights just before I left the house, but you get the general idea here below.

dress - Dynamite (2011); coat - vintage (2010); purse - vintage (2010);
heels - Spring (2008)

I also put together a page for my closet these last few days, so you can check on my challenge progress. I have no idea how I accumulated so many clothes. This is going to take forever.

Tis the Season for Presents

2011-11-29T08:30:00.000-05:00

Only 26 shopping days left until Christmas! While I'm knocking people off of my to-buy-for list, I found a few little items that I'd love to gift myself!
How perfect would this be to keep all your precious jewels on display? I need everything out where I can see it and this is a great solution!
Ikea Serving Platter - $14.99

I'm not usually one for huge danglers, but I'm heading to the Dominican again in the new year and this colour is just amazing.

Stella & Dot "Charlize" Teardrop Earrings - $34

I have been coveting a pair of fire engine red jeans since the end of the summer, but due to my shopping ban have yet to indulge in a pair.

American Eagle Jegging - $46.63

The essential party game.
This one includes tracks like "Everybody Dance Now," "Jump On It," and "Party Rock Anthem." Good Times.

Just Dance 3 for Wii - $34.99

The perfect day planner.
Monthly views, weekly views, and laminated tabs. This one can be personalized any way you'd like on the inside and monogrammed on the front!

Emma Rose & Me via Etsy - $44

What are you guys asking Santa for this year?

BT: "A Case of the Mondays"

2011-11-28T12:46:00.000-05:00

Has anyone seen Office Space? If you haven't you should!

I definitely have a "case of the mondays," so I wouldn't blame you if you came around my desk, put on a fake-pouty-face and lamented the same.

I booked a trip down to the Dominican for January 7th and when I excitedly told my mom my happy news the only feedback she had was "why do you need to take two vacations in the same year?"
Oh mom. Come work with me for a week. Then it should be pretty self-explanatory. LOVE my job, but totally stressful.

denim shirt - Walmart (2011); belt - Smart Set (2010); skirt - Thrifted (2011);
boots - Sirens (2010); necklace - Stella & Dot (2011)

I'm seriously debating chopping this skirt off. I could easily make 2 with this amount of material... A knee length A-Line and a super swingy short one with the bottom foot and a half!
Also, behold this mess:

Sock Bun Fail!

Other ways I've Worn these boots:

BT & The First Snowfall

2011-11-23T10:01:00.003-05:00

I'm really confused.

I live in Canada, so you think people would be used to the crazy amounts of snow we get every winter, right? So why is it that for some reason, come first snowfall, everyone just kind of forgets how to drive?

You should see the number of cars in the ditch... hilarious... until of course one spins out and comes your way.

And no, I didn't wear this today... heels, tights & short sleeves do not mix well with a first snow fall! This is from a few days back...

dress - Dynamite (2011); tights - Hue (2010); belt - Dynamite (2011);
heels - Aldo (2010)

Keeping: tights, belt & heels
Debating: this dress, I've only worn it once before now.

And once again... no "Ways I've Worn" because as I've said, this baby's only been pulled out once before! Hmmmm, it's a good thing I'm doing this challenge!

BT & An Overshare.

2011-11-22T13:59:00.004-05:00

So apparently, dogs get periods. Who knew, right?
(can we detect my self-directed sarcasm?)

My procrastination bites me in the ass again. For those of you with female puppies - don't wait too long after they turn 6 months. Now poor coco will be in her uncomfortable (yet hilarious!) diaper for a few days and I'll have to wait 3 months to get her spayed. *siiigh* Maybe this will finally teach me to stop putting things off.

am I an awful mother for posting this? haha, she just looks so confused at the whole situation.

Oh right... the whole fashion blog thing...

shirt - Suzy Shier (2009); vest - H&M (2011); skinnies - Smart Set (2010);
flats - Steve Madden (2009)

nugget wrap bracelet - Stella & Dot (2011); watch - Guess (2010);
La Coco Chain - Stella & Dot (2011)

Sadly, I didn't have enough pictures of either the vest or button down to do a "Ways I've worn"... its a good thing they're finally getting some camera time!

BT & Holiday Prep

2011-11-20T20:40:00.004-05:00

Surprisingly the shopping ban is going just swimmingly, even with Christmas just around the corner! I managed to find a fake tree for only $35 and I picked up all my decorations on the cheap last January, so I'm pretty much all set! The bf has a job in Toronto all week, but when he gets back next weekend we'll be in full decorating mode!

Christmas presents on the other hand have me a little worried... Does anyone have any creative DIY ideas for friends and family gifts? What do you guys have planned in terms of presents this holiday season? Feel free to share ideas and links in the comments section!

blazer - Ricki's (2009); tee - Smart Set (2010); skinnies - Smart Set (2010);
necklace - Smart Set (2010); heels - BCBG (2009)

Ways I've Worn This Blazer...

BT: Define Me.

2011-11-17T15:48:00.003-05:00

I've owned these shoes for about 3 years now and I'm pretty sure this is the first time they've seen the light of day. Sad, isn't it?
Fortunately I've developed (or am developing.... I still have my moments!) better shopping habits and don't purchase random things just because they're on sale.

So I'm again facing this conundrum on defining my style. I don't think I have a definition per se. I see something, I like it, I buy it, I wear it - but maybe it's time (after the shopping ban of course) to develop a more cohesive closet?

So since I have no idea where to start, if you had to define my style, what words would you use to describe me?

knit dress - Charlotte Russe (2009); belt - Dynamite (2010);
leggings - F21 (2011); flats - Aldo (2008)

Keeping: Dress, Belt & Leggings
Debating: Flats

Ways I've Worn this Knit Dress

BT: Weekend Fun & A Love Affair

2011-11-15T13:33:00.003-05:00

SWAMPED!

Or at least that's how I feel at work lately. It's only Tuesday and I already feel like I've worked more than a week. I have a feeling I will be in serious need of vacation come Christmas.

The little bits of fun I've been having in between are welcome changes. Last Saturday we had a lovely dinner at the Best Friend's place out in Woodlawn, followed by drunken "Just Dance" on the Wii. If you haven't played yet, you have no idea what you're missing. You look so ridiculous trying to mimic the avatar on the screen you can't help but laugh at yourself :)
Last night the BF and I went for Indian at the East India Company on Somerset - by FAR the best indian food in Ottawa, and they have buffet so if you're new to the experience there's lots for you to try. I'm in love with their Veg Korma. I asked it if it wanted to date, but apparently it has a lot of suitors and wasn't ready to settle down. That's okay, as long as it has time for me at least once a month.

Still keeping up with my Challenge too :) I'll EVENTUALLY have a spreadsheet - but that requires free time.

cardigan - Dynamite (2010); blouse - Smart Set (2010);
skirt - Dynamite (2010); boots - LimeLight (2009)

Other Ways I've Worn this "Painted" Skirt...

Shoe Lust: Holiday Sparklers

2011-11-13T14:13:00.001-05:00

With the Holiday season fast approaching, I couldn't help but check out the sparklers.
I know I'm on a shopping ban, but I can always daydream....

top: Steve Madden; Sam Edelman; Aldo
middle: Spring; Steve Madden; Aldo;
bottom: Sam Edelman; Betsey Johnson; Jeffrey Campbell

Buried Treasures & some emo-ness.

2011-11-10T13:43:00.003-05:00

Today is not a good day.

Bad news has definitely given me a case of the humbugs and has kind of made me question what the eff I'm even good at anymore. Aren't we all supposed to have some kind of talent? Shouldn't we all kind of be good at something and then we manipulate that into some kind of career?
*sigh* I don't know anymore. I realize I'm still young and I have time to figure it out, fail at a few things, and try them over again with greater possibilities of success, but it still sucks. Ya know?

Alright... something good...? Hmmm... I look hot in stripes?

tunic/dress - F21 (2011); cardigan - Zara (2010); skinnies - Smart Set (2010);
boots - Thrifted (2009)

Other Ways I've Worn this Zara Cardigan...

Sweet Somethings: Chocolate Swirl Cheesecake

2011-11-08T21:48:00.000-05:00

Monday was the bf's 26th birthday so I had to make him his favorite dessert - cheesecake.

I swear, there wasn't actually anything orange in the cake. My camera is strange some times.

People think cheesecake is intimidating, but I assure you it's a piece of cake. Pun intended.

For the crust:

1 1/2 cup of crushed craham crackers
1/2 cup of sugar
4 tbsp melted butter

For the Cheesecake:

3 sticks of cream cheese
1 cup of sugar
4 eggs
1 tbsp vanilla
1/2 cup of cocoa powder or hot chocolate mix

SUPER EASY!

Mix together all the ingredients for the crust and press into the bottom and one inch up the sides of an 8" or 9" springform pan.
Cream together the sugar and cream cheese. (Don't skip this step or your cheesecake will be lumpy!)
Add in the eggs one at a time and then the vanilla and mix it real good.
Pour half to 3/4 of the batter into your pan.
Mix in your chocolatey goodness to the remaining batter and then pour that on top.
Swirl with a knife to get a ribbon-esque look.
Bake for 40-45 minutes at 350 degrees until the edges are firm but the middle is slightly jiggly still.

I got lazy and topped it with cherry pie filling, but you could also sprinkle your favorite chopped fruit (like raspberries... mmmmm) with sugar and let it sit for a couple minutes so it gets all juicy and top it with that.
And voila! In less than an hour you have a gigantic piece of deliciousness to enjoy :)

Buried Treasures: Winners Cardigan

2011-11-08T11:10:00.000-05:00

I definitely don't feel as inspired in this one, but we all have off days.
What I love about this outfit is my hair What I don't like is the silhouette I'm creating with this long sweater, wide jean combination.

tee - Zara (2010); cardigan - Winners (2011); jeans - Dynamite (2010);
belt - Smart Set (2010); shoes - Madden Girl (2009)

Keeping: tee, jeans, belt
Purging: shoes. they're cute, but I think it's a donate now.
Debating: long sweater

I scoured my lookbook but couldn't find multiple outfits in which I wore any of these pieces besides the jeans... I think that means I didn't choose these pieces well when I bought them!

Buried Treasures: BCBG Full Skirt

2011-11-04T10:40:00.000-04:00

With a closet as overstuffed as mine, it's east to forget pieces that you absolutely love.

I'm definitely happy that I chose to do this. Getting dressed these last few days have actually been FUN. Pulled this out the other morning and couldn't believe I hadn't worn it since the spring! It's so swingy and freaking adorable, it should be part of my regular rotation!

blouse - Jacob (2010); skirt - BCBG (2009); watch - Guess (2010); heels - Aldo (2010)

another piece I never wear... thrifted this back in 2008!

Other ways I've worn this fabulous skirt...

Buried Treasures: The Shop My Closet Challenge

2011-11-02T13:29:00.004-04:00

It just so happens that today is the 2 year anniversary of my lil' ol' blog. You can partake in my embarrassment here. They grow up so fast, don't they?

I was planning on doing a year in review, but (if we haven't noticed by my lack of posts lately...) I am short on spare time, and while I'd LOVE to go through all my old pictures and put together a little montage-y thing for you, I know I'd just be making a promise I can't keep.

I DO on the other hand have a new challenge that I will be starting today :)
If you're addicted to the shopaholic series of books (a super quick & fun read!) you already know that in the most recent installment Rebecca Brandon (née Bloomwood) is on a shopping ban until she wears EVERYTHING in her closet. I have decided to partake in said challenge as well. I already have a spreadsheet (my OCD goes a little crazy here!) of all the items in my closet, so I will be using that as a starting point to make sure EVERYTHING GETS WORN BEFORE I SHOP AGAIN! If I honestly can't make a piece work, it will be donated. I'll make a post dedicated to my spreadsheet eventually for those of you who are also Type A's!

Wish me luck :)

fur trim vest - Old Navy (2010); vintage blouse - thrifted (2011);
skinnies - Smart Set (2010); boots - Spring (2011)

Ways I've worn this Fur Trimmed Vest...

It's never too late for a costume post.

2011-11-01T12:51:00.005-04:00

I freaking love Halloween.

Let it be known that there were THREE costumes this year.... but of course, after the debauchery started, no pictures were taken so you only get to see me as Marilyn and not Red Foo or my adorable 50's chick in my handmade poodle skirt.

25 Ways to Wear a Scarf

2011-10-28T13:17:00.001-04:00

Late to the game, but I couldn't resist reposting... Especially because of the frigid weather we've been experiencing lately!

It's Almost Time!

2011-10-27T14:16:00.002-04:00

I look so surly in these pics! Must be due to the fact that I am totally unimpressed with this sudden shift to ass-freezing weather. Only 2 degrees this morning? No thank you.

BUT! On a GLORIOUS note, it's only 2 days til my costume party and 4 days til Halloween!
Oh how I love that holiday!

What are you all going to be this year?

ls tee - Jacob (swap 2011); skirt - Jacob (2011); boots - Thrifted (2008)

OFW Outfit - Day 1

2011-10-11T14:16:00.003-04:00

Oh hey, turns out I didn't fall off the face of the blogosphere, just been super busy!
Teensy post today, just thought I'd share my outfit from the first night of fashion week.

vest - H&M (2011); dress - F21 (2011); tights - Hue (2010); heels - Aldo (2010)

Ottawa Fasion Week S/S12: Day 1, Part 2

2011-10-04T13:24:00.004-04:00

Alright, bare with me people, I'll try not to take forever to get through this!

So after the first intermission (which was more than an hour... and only got progressively worse...) it was time for Micalla and Anomal.

The Micalla show started with a touching story about how Danish born designer Camilla Jorgensen used to go visit her friend who was getting chemo treatment and they would make jewellery together. Fortunately, when her friend recovered, the jewellery making stuck. Make no mistake, all the pretty glitter is from precious jems, gold, and swarovski crystals. I especially loved a shawl that was completely decked out in rhinestones (someone's head decided to get in the way for those shots...) and the harness-esque pieces.

Next up was Anomal (which conveniently sells on Etsy!). There are no words to describe my love for this collection, but i'mma try anyway! Uhm.... gooorgeous? The spring/summer line showed a definite asian influence with a dash of over the top glamour. love. The details were to die for and I loved the mix of textures. My favorite pieces were the purple jumpsuit contrasted with leather, a leopard print one-shouldered maxi, and a fabulous sequined kimono-like number.

After the second break we got to see a line from Simon Ekrelius from the UK. I'm not even going to pretend I understood his collection. Sometimes "fashion" escapes me. Sure, there was a piece or two that was wearable and pretty, like the pleated grey sack-dress, but the majority of it was just... odd to me. I know I'll get some flack from the fashionistas when I say this, but the plastic pods, haphazardly grommeted together pieces of fabric, and the dress shirts with collars on the shoulders (see below) were (in my opinion) totally unwearable. Maybe I don't have an appreciation for the "avant-garde" yet... but I like my fashion to be functional.
I did however fall madly in love with the Aldo Calcagni red wedges that stomped down the runway in this show.

Last but not least, we saw an outerwear collection by RUD by Rudsak. Really pretty leather pieces and trenches piped in contrasting colors are the perfect toppers for any fashionable outfit, and they came out in spades. So pretty. BUT, conversely, had me asking if this was the right show to close the first night. I understand that it's one of the better known brands and that it's readily available and most definitely wearable, but I expected the first night to go out with a bang, and this was more of a dull thud. That being said, when I'm looking for a new leather bomber next spring, I will definitely look here first.

Despite minor disorganization (which is understandable for a first night at a completely different venue), day 1 was a success. Stay tuned for coverage of the last two days.

Ottawa Fasion Week S/S12: Day 1, Part 1

2011-10-03T14:38:00.006-04:00

As usual, this year's shows completely blew me away. Who knew there was so much talent so close to home?
This season offered a new venue in Ottawa's own completely renovated and remodeled Congress Centre, which proved to be the perfect upscale setting for the vendors and drink services offered. The outside walls which are completely glass gave view to the Rideau Canal which looks gorgeous lit up at night.
The night was split into three different segments of shows with intermissions inbetween (which were supposed to be an hour long) for refreshments and browsing the vendors.

The first set featured designers Birds of North America, Amber Watkins, and Valerie Dumaine. I won't get into details of how frustrated I was with my camera during this set.

Birds of North America was adorable, as usual. Designer Hayley Gibson stayed true to form showcasing little sundresses, shorts and culottes, but added an unexpected twist by bandaging up her girls like broken dolls. It reminded me in a way of Sally from the Nightmare BEfore Christmas, and since this is one of my favorite movies of all time, I mean that in a complately positive way.
While her designs aren't necessarily my esthetic, I really enjoyed the way the dresses were cut and the way the striped patterns intersected at the seams. She'd be very fitting for many fellow bloggers who relish in the vintage-schoolgirl inspired look.

Next up was a swimwear collection from up and coming designer Amber Watkins. After winning a local design competition in 2009, she was invited to show at NYFW in 2010, and has been going full speed ever since. I absolutely LOVE the way these suits feel both vintage in the way that they're cut, but fresh and modern due to the vibrant colors and feather & gold accessories (which, if I'm not mistaken, were designed by Ottawa's own Melissa Pica and can be found at Norml Clothing in the market!).

The last show in the first set was by Montreal based designer Valerie Dumaine. Personally I would wear every piece in her collection and I am completely kicking myself for not being more prepared with memory cards! (Don't worry, I ran out during the first intermission and snagged one!) Her designs are perfectly ladylike with skirts, draped blouses, and adorable shift dresses. While I love her separates, its the easy wearability of her dresses that had me in love.

To read more about the shows and to see additional photos, feel free to visit fellow show-goers Lot 65, or Pop Champagne :)

Last Hurrah

2011-09-29T10:17:00.000-04:00

Note to Self:
Just because I'm adoring a trend on the runways and in the magazines does NOT mean that it will look remotely similar on my 5'3, curvaceous frame. I finally made my way over to the new Forever 21 that recently opened in the Rideau Centre and tried on some tie-neck 70s-esque blouses that I had been coveting. Verdict? They made me look old and frumpy and added far too much volume to my chesticles, and lets be honest, I don't need any more attention drawn to the ladies.

So while I love the trend on others, this is one that I don't think I'll be partaking in.

Instead I decided to rework a piece that does work for me, a last hurrah in a summer maxi before packing it away for the winter months.

crop top - H&M (2009); maxi - Dominican (2011)

Plain Jane

2011-09-26T17:08:00.000-04:00

The last couple of weeks have just been insane!
The Ottawa Hospital Charity breakfast, a follow up shoot for CBC's Dragon's Den, last few AP classes for my CMA (or CPA for you americans!), my BFF's 25th birthday, and year end accounting for the company I work for have kept me more than busy.... Hence the lack of posts. But you think with all I had going on I'd have had a chance to snap a few outfit photos... No such luck. You're stuck with a super-boring one from a week ago.
Fortunately Ottawa Fashion Week is this weekend, so I'll have more exciting things to post in the near future!

knit top - F21 (2011); jeans - Dynamite (2010); booties - Spring (2010)

In My Shoes: Chinese Laundry Wedges

2011-09-19T12:35:00.001-04:00

I bought these babies at the beginning of last summer and the beginning of my first management job in hopes that a wedge would still give me height, plus the added benefit of comfort. My bf at the time told me they looked like something an old lady would wear. I never did listen to his opinion when it came to shopping, haha.

The comfort ideal lasted for a whole five minutes before i had blisters ALL OVER my toes. Fortunately, once the leather became a bit more worn in the pain stopped, but their cuteness lived on.

How I wore them...

Knots & Polka Dots

2011-09-15T14:37:00.000-04:00

I'm pretty sure my hair & mouth was doing something funky in every picture I took... Yes, this is the best of the lot. Sad isn't it?
Although I have been liking my outfits lately, I haven't felt much like smiling for pictures. While there have been a lot of positives in my life, I have definitely been stressed out this last week. Between work, uncertainty about my living situation, and the bf writing his UFE's, my stomach has been constantly in knots.
It'll pass though, I'm sure.

top - H&M (2011); skirt - Dynamite (2010); shoes - Aldo (2010)

In My Shoes: Aldo "Urquiza" Loafer

2011-09-11T20:13:00.004-04:00

It's been a while since I've done one of these, but my collection grows every month so I thought I would continue with this feature!

Ah, Aldo. You never steer me astray.
I bought these last winter and it was love at first step. Not only did they fit perfectly into my then-corporate wardrobe, they are incredibly comfortable.
I'm so glad I purchased them when I did since I see this trend popping up again everywhere for the fall!
You can purchase a similar style here in black.

How I've worn them...

Put a Bow on It

2011-09-10T12:15:00.000-04:00

There's something so incredibly sexy about the conservative secretary look. I'm loving the high heeled loafer, the 50's esque midi-skirt, and of course, the bow tie blouse.

Here are just a few that I've had my eye on recently...

Sheer Floral Blouse - F21 ($30)

Polka Dotted - Dynamite ($30)

Black Plaid - Smart Set ($35)

Tele-Visionary Blouse - Modcloth ($43)

Tie Neck Henley - Gap ($65)

Helter Bow Blouse - Need Supply ($80)

I'm sort of leaning towards the adorable modcloth one, but ordering online always psychs me out, so chances are I'll end up with the Dynamite version. Not that I don't already own enough polkadots....

What are your thoughts?

There's Just Something About OFW

2011-09-09T14:47:00.005-04:00

Can't you just feel the anticipation in the air?
It's almost that time again.... Ottawa Fashion Week!
Can't wait to welcome back the regulars like Kania, Adrian Wu, Rachel Sin, Jana Hanzel, & Birds of North America; and excited to see what the newcomers have to offer!

Check out the entire Line-Up Here.
Read my Previous Reviews Here.

Shopaholics Anonymous

2011-09-07T14:24:00.004-04:00

I miss shopping.

I know, that sounds pathetic. I just went on a trip a month ago where I bought far too much... but I'm pretty sure I have an addiction! Something about pretty new things just gets my heart racing.
BF and I went window shopping last weekend and I nearly had a meltdown because he (rightly so) talked me out of buying the most adorable sweater from the gap at 40% off.

Is there such a thing as shopaholics anonymous?

blouse - Jacob (2010); vest - H&M (2011); skinnies - Smart Set (2010); flats - Aldo (2011)

Also, has anyone else seen Coco Rocha's Jacob ads? They've made a commitment to stop retouching their models (not that she needs any anyways)! LOVE!!

where does the time go?

2011-09-02T11:13:00.002-04:00

I can't believe how quickly the weeks pass! I wish you could just pause time and do the things you actually enjoy before life continues on around you. I miss being able to spend hours a day catching up on blog posts and browsing the various sites... I don't know how you ladies do it! Maybe I just need to work on my time management skills?

Anyhoo, birthday was a blast last weekend. Thank you to all my lovelies for coming out! We need to party again soon :)

button down - Smart Set (2010); skirt - Smart Set (2010); boots - Sirens (2010)

Time to Unleash Little Miss Home-Maker

2011-08-24T13:32:00.000-04:00

Another day, another dollar. Or dollars. Whichever.

Is it too early in the day to say I'm ready for a nap? Because I definitely am. I feel like I'm constantly busy, but there's still so much to do! You should see the house right now, it's actually quite disgusting, and I'm having company on Friday night for a BBQ! I'll be in power-clean mode tonight for sure.

I'm also going to attempt to make some cupcakes. Is it tacky for me to make dessert for my own birthday party? I think everyone will appreciate the sweets.

As if I'm going to be 25.
As if I'm going to be 25 and still use expressions like "as if."

blouse - H&M (2011); jeans - Tommy Hilfiger (2011); heels - Spring (2006)

Went to NYC & All I Got Was...

2011-08-23T23:00:00.001-04:00

I know, I know, this is far more tame than the neon green I wore last, but lets be honest - Colour Scares Me!!!

I feel far more comfortable in neutrals, and while I occasionally add a random pop, neon green is quite far out of my comfort zone... I loved the response to it though, so I will definitely have to style it again!

I bought this top at F21 on Fifth Avenue in New York. I know what you're thinking, "you went to FIFTH AVENUE and went into a FOREVER 21?!?!" But lets face it, I am far too poor to go into a Chanel, Gucci, or Prada, regardless of how badly I want to. That, combined with the fact that I have absolutely no self control when it comes to pretty things would have left me in a world of hurt.
I'm proud to say that on my vacation I spent only about $400 on clothes, which I budgeted and saved for. I did splurge a bit on a Michael Kors bag (which will debut on the blog soon, I'm sure!), but even that I got at a bargain for only $200! All in all I'd have to say I deserve a good ol' pat on the back!

blouse - F21 (2011); jeans - Dynamite (2011)

Edit: I just realized you can see puppy bum in the reflection in the mirror! Haha, awesome.

[(challenges + stress) x 5 days a week]/awesome people = greatest job ever

2011-08-19T11:24:00.004-04:00

I barely have a spare moment these days. Between the fabulous new job, studying for my CMA exam, taking care of little Coco, and trying to have a social life, I am on the verge of burning out.
Yet I couldn't be happier.

My vacation last week came at the perfect time, but with the go-go-go of everything I wanted to see and do & keeping up with work, it's almost as if I needed a vacation from my vacation. But that's typical I suppose.

This week has just flown by, I can't believe its already Friday. It is definitely a stark contrast to my last job. I work and work and still feel like there are ten million things I still have to accomplish. It's completely rewarding and I love it.

Added perk? Getting to wear things like this that would never fly in a regular corporate environment.

tee - Smart set (2010); necklace - Smart Set (2010); maxi - thrifted (2011);
bag - Old Navy (2011); flip flops - Aldo (2011)

Takin a Breather

2011-08-04T10:19:00.000-04:00

It's so nice to finally be able to sit down and relax! These last few weeks have been hectic to say the least, but with the exam finally behind me I can actually spend a little time being lazy - and its lovely.

Now there are only two days of work that stand between me and the Jersey coast line. I can't wait to hit the beach.

Is the Jersey shore tacky to Americans? All I know is that summers there as a kid were always amazing so this is bringing me a healthy dose of happiness and nostalgia!

On a completely unrelated note, the new job has been fabulous. A challenge, but fabulous none the less. Coco can come to work with me which is so much better than leaving her in her crate for hours on end, and I can actually wear whatever I want! So much better than a business casual code... though I guess my style is kind of classic anyways (at least that's what I strive for!), but I do like trying out trends and adding some girly pieces, so this is the perfect opportunity to play with my look a little bit!

tank - Dynamite (2010); jeans - Dynamite (2010); wedges - Aldo (2011)

A little Self-Love

2011-07-25T09:52:00.001-04:00

Why do we insist on comparing ourselves and our bodies to other girls we know?
By no means do I think I'm "fat," but I do think I'm a little curvy. I'm not that 5'8 tall, leggy, blonde with the perfect abs and boobs! I'm petite little me with the large
"humps" and junk in my trunk. And when I act confident, I know I own it.

So let's rejoice in a little self-love!
What I'm lovin' about me today?
My super-thick, extra bouncy, does whatever it wants to, hair!

cardigan - Dynamite (2011); tank - Winners (2011);
skinnies - Tommy Hilfiger (2011); flip flops - Aldo (2011)

Cleaning Out My Closet

2011-07-08T11:41:00.001-04:00

I’m sure we all have those mornings – you know the ones, where you stand in front of the plethora of clothes that are over flowing out of your closet and mutter to yourself that you have absolutely nothing to wear. Yup, that happened to me this morning. The realization that I came to was kind of a strange one. Could it be that I have TOO MANY clothes? That my vision is so swamped with items that bore me or that never looked that great on me in the first place but were an impulsive buy due to an incredibly good price?

The solution? A clothing swap party. But how does one organize this? Do I book a room somewhere and hope people show up? Do I throw it at home? Has anyone done this before? What are the costs of pulling off something like this? Advice please!

So New

2011-07-07T10:30:00.000-04:00

So I think it's time for me to share my wonderful news:
I got a new job :D

If you've read this blog for a while, it was no secret that I was unhappy where I was. It wasn't that I didn't love the company or the people (well, the majority of them), I just wasn't feeling challenged or like I was actually contributing to something. It makes it difficult to go in and do a job everyday when you feel like your work goes unnoticed, (except of course to be criticized).
On the 18th I will be starting a brand new job as the main accountant for a small cosmetics company.
Not only am I looking forward to the new challenge, but I feel like this is a company I could actually CARE about, put 100% into, and who knows? Maybe help it grow into something huge.

I'll keep you posted.

Oh yes, and what people read fashion blogs for:

dress - Costa Blanca (2006); cardigan - Garage (2007); wedges - Chinese Laundry (2010)

About that time, eh Folks?

2011-07-05T12:44:00.004-04:00

It's about time for an outfit post I think, don't you?

I've been so lazy in the mornings, barely crawling out of bed a half hour before I have to leave for work, so between getting ready and taking the dog out for her morning walk, outfit photos have fallen to the wayside. I'd take some after work, but who wants to see a sweaty, frizzy photo? It's best to hide the evidence of how awful I look come 5 o'clock!

This was taken over a week ago. I'm slightly ashamed, haha.

dress - Urban Behaviour (2009); belt - Smart Set (2010);
cardigan - Dynamite (2011); clogs - Aldo (2011)

Also, has anyone been watching the Glee Project? I'd love to hear your thoughts! I don't have a musical bone in my body, but wouldn't it be amazing to be a part of that group of misfits?

A Nautical Cardigan is So Appropriate Today

2011-06-24T13:30:00.000-04:00

The gloom-tastic weather of this week has certainly taken its effect on me. My outfits have been blah-boring to say the least. I wore a skirt the other day, but of course forgot to photograph it, so all I have now are pictures of variations of things I’ve already worn. If you get bored and wander away, I understand. I’m pretty A.D.D. myself.

Honestly, this outfit came about because I woke up to torrential rain and these were my only pair of clean pants. Attractive, I know. Perhaps I should do some laundry today? Probably not a bad idea.

cardigan - urban behaviour (2010); tank - Dynamite (2011); skinnies - Smart Set (2010);
flats - Suzy Shier (2009)

Pulling a Mel

2011-06-22T10:00:00.002-04:00

Once again I have disappeared into the abyss. I’m quite good at this apparently. Life just gets slightly crazy sometimes and hobbies fall to the wayside.

My exam (almost two weeks ago now! Jeez…. ) went well, but instead of buying myself a new pair of shoes as a reward, I “pulled a Mel.” I’m sure that phrase will catch on. The definition?
To do something impulsive in the spur of the moment without thinking of the consequences or impact on your financial situation.

What is it I did? Oh, just bought a new car. Without doing research. Or actually shopping around. I basically pulled into a dealership in the spur of the moment, fell in love with a little red hatchback, and signed the papers then and there. While I love my new little Nissan Versa, money will be tight for the next little while, so no random new shoes for this girl…. Until of course, I “pull a Mel” again.

I thought I'd posted this.... I really did...

2011-06-13T10:21:00.003-04:00

Between studying for my exam last Saturday and welcoming the boy back from Europe, I have been super busy these last few days, so pardon my absence!

Yesterday was St. Anthony's day here in Ottawa, the official start to Italian Week in Little Italy. It's an event I go to every year, and absolutely love. It starts with an outdoor mass and then a huge parade down Preston Street. Basically every Italian in the city attends and dresses up. It's practically a fashion show, and I love it. While I didn't get a shot of my own outfit (shame on me!) I did manage to snap a few shots of some really pretty looks, including a few of the individuals participating in the precession in their period costumes.

Despite being incredibly tired after a long day out in the sun, I had the sudden urge to reorganize my closet last night. I feel like I can finally see everything in there, which is super exciting! I did, however, take off the door, and while I do enjoy being able to see my handiwork right now, I'm sure that will eventually bother me. If anyone has any suggestions on how to creatively solve this problem, I'm open to suggestions! My room has a black & white theme with a slightly vintage (based on my refurbished furniture and empty picture frame jewelry holders) feeling to it.

Decisions, Decisions...

2011-06-10T14:09:00.004-04:00

I would just like to say how very proud of myself I am.
It's 1/3 of the way through the month, and I haven't bought ANYTHING with my clothing budget yet! I guess studying has left me a bit distracted though.
My celebration will be short lived as I plan to reward myself with something pretty after my exam tomorrow morning.

Here are two pairs of shoes that I'm SERIOUSLY debating over... I know flat sandals would be a lot more practical, but these just seem like a lot more fun!

First is the "Dyle"... I love the green and white together. SO fresh and summery!

And second we have the "Krugh." (Who names these things?! I feel like they should be hair-metal bands from the 80s and not pretty platforms!)
The color is a lot more neutral, but it's the adorable crochet detail that has me absoluetly smitten...

Which do you prefer?

Procrastination should be my Middle Name.

2011-06-06T21:19:00.002-04:00

And so another week begins... And I have an exam this saturday...
I'm trying to be good and spread my studying out this time instead of just cramming Friday night. We'll see how this works out.

At least the weekend was entertaining... for the most part. I had a long over due housewarming party last night for my relatives. It was quite entertaining watching 25 people try to squeeze into my tiny kitchen, but that's where the party always ends up being, doesn't it? My next house will be 90% kitchen to avoid such chaos.
I also received some absolutely lovely gifts. I think my family secretly thinks I'm an alcoholic as the majority of them were booze related. Not complaining though! The next time I have company we'll have lots of fancy glasses and no one will be stuck sipping wine from awful paper ones!

Not what I wore to my housewarming, but an outfit nonetheless... it's overdue.

tank - Smart Set (2010); cardi - Dynamite (2007); skinnies - Gap (2010)

Monthly Money Check-Up: May 2011

2011-06-03T15:08:00.000-04:00

Clothing Budget: $100
Actually Spent: $236

Breakdown:

Verdict: BAD GIRL!
Although I love everything I bought and see them fitting into my wardrobe well, I did go a little overboard. I blame the sudden change to warm weather and the fact that nothing from last summer fits anymore. Also, that trench was a crazy deal marked down from $150. I would have been crazy to pass that up, it's a classic!

Other Frivolous Spending of Note:

Art & Shelving for the house: $97
Spoiling the Animals: $72
Savings Contributions: $250

Future Goals to Save for:

Jersey Shore August 8th: $0/$800

Life is Short

2011-06-02T11:04:00.001-04:00

Yesterday I had my monthly appointment with my shrink - yes, I see one. And I'm kind of proud of the fact that I went to seek out someone to talk to to sort out this "life" thing! Anyways, she's totally genius and has a book out called "The Integrity Model of Existential Psychotherapy," which basically states that we get stressed out and in bad places mentally because we engage in behaviours that conflict with our core values.

Since my main cause of stress in my life is my job, I thought I would take advantage of her career counseling services as well. This was my long-winded way of saying that I took the Myers-Briggs test, which is a personality test based on 4 dichotomies:

Extroversion vs. Introversion
Sensing vs. Intuition
Thinking vs. Feeling
Judgement vs. Perception

You're then given an acronym based on where you score highest. I am an INTJ (introverted-innovative-thinking-judgement) based person, (the second rarest type, might i add!), and it describes me perfectly... it's almost scary how well it pinpointed both my strengths and weaknesses.

These reults really helped to re-affirm the thought process that has been going through my head these last few months: That I will never be truly happy in my job unless I do somethign that has both an element of creativity and independence involved.

If you're interested in taking your own test, you can find a free one online here.
I'd love to hear how you scored!

In Conclusion: I've been toying with a business plan of my own for some months now, and this recent discovery combined with the Hollstee Manifesto (which was JUST brought to my attention and is now my favorite thing of the moment!), has convinced me to DIVE IN! While I won't be quitting my job anytime soon (I have issues with instability!) I'm going to make sure I devote time each week to developing my idea and establishing the steps I need to take to make my dream a reality.
I'll be sure to keep you posted on my progress!

The Holstee Manifesto

my version of "outdoorsy"

2011-05-30T19:15:00.000-04:00

I’m so jealous of all you lucky folk with your long weekend! Mondays are such a drag… fortunately the weather here is absolutely gorgeous, so getting out of bed was a little easier!

Yesterday was my Grandparents’ 55^th wedding anniversary so the entire family came over for a BBQ. There are so many young children on my mother’s side of the family, so my little Coco was completely spoiled with attention! Fortunately for me that also means she passed out at a reasonable hour and didn’t mind being put in her crate when it was bedtime.

I thought this skirt & tank top combination was the perfect BBQ ensemble, and it also marked my first foray into pattern mixing! Nothing too adventurous, just a simple mix of polka dots and stripes, but I think I did pretty well!

cardi - swap (2011); tank - Dynamite (2011); skirt - thrifted (2010); clogs - Aldo (2011)

Wanted: Awesome Photographer Friend :)

2011-05-28T11:10:00.000-04:00

Wanted:
Awesome photographer friend to come take pictures of me on a regular basis, tell me how hot I look, and ask me to pose like a sexy tiger.

Qualifications:
-Must possess an excellent vocabulary of adjectives to encourage me.
-Must not laugh at me when I inevitably look silly.
-Must be patient when I whine about how nothing is turning out.
-Must be able to brave the elements!
-.... oh and I guess knowledge of a DSLR would be a plus too, but not a requirement :)

Friend Friday: A Hair-y Issue

2011-05-27T11:49:00.003-04:00

I haven't really been keeping up with the Friend Friday's as of lately, but I do always enjoy reading everyone else's answers. My posts will be sporadic in this genre... but when they're quick and simple, I'll usually partake. Thanks, as usual, Katy!

1. How often do you get your hair cut?
Not as often as I should, I’m sure. Probably once every 3 months? Sometimes I go longer…

2. Do you go to the same stylist each time, try someone new, go to the cheap hair cutting chains or live it up in a salon?
Since I moved back to Ottawa a year ago I’ve had my hair cut 3 times, each at a different salon. Currently my good friend Sarah has been doing my hair. She works at Scissors in Stittsville, but has a cute little salon set up right in her house where I’ll get mine done. She’s responsible for the sexy bangs I’ve been rocking since March. I’m probably in need of a trim too… *ahem*

3. Do you color your hair? How often? What’s your natural color?
I currently have some chunky peek-a-boo highlights, but this brown is all natural. I used to dye my hair darker all the time until I was told it makes me look washed out.

4. The one thing you always do to keep your hair looking great is:
I don’t love my hair, but I have received compliments… I’d say it’s because I never blow dry it – not because I’m concerned about keeping it healthy, but just because I’m far too lazy.

5. What hair trend do you love and wish you could rock?

I would LOVE to go platinum blonde like Gwen Stefani, 80s Madonna, or Gaga, but I know the amount of upkeep with my dark roots and brows would just be ridiculous. Refer to my lazy comment in #4.

photo credit: Google Images Search

Building a Budget

2011-05-25T11:01:00.003-04:00

If you know me in real life, it will come as no surprise that I LOVE Canadian financial guru Gail Vaz Oxlade. She's one of my career idols. This lady just makes SENSE!

The secret to my financial "success"? Her simple rules.
Don't spend more than you make.
Credit cards are the devil.
ALWAYS have savings.

Sounds simple enough, right? But you'd be surprised how many people just don't.
Sure, I'm human and I slip up, spend a little more than I've allocated to category, bring out the credit card for an impulsive buy, but because I have a plan (of sorts) I can always figure it out.

If you have a few minutes, you should check out the resources section on her website. It definitely helped me get my finances in check and plan for the future, something that as a young adult I never thought mattered.

My favorite is her "build a budget" tool. Download the excel version and it does all the calculations for you!

Fire in Your New Shoes

2011-05-24T21:18:00.003-04:00

I've come down with some sort of flu, so to make myself feel better I thought I'd blog about my favorite topic: New Shoes.

I definitely went over my monthly clothing/shoe budget this month. While a "Monthly Money Check-Up" is actually on its way this month, I thought I'd take a little survey to find out whether a recent purchase is a yey, or a nay.

cardigan - Dynamite (2011); tank - Dynamite (2011); pants - Gap (2010);
clogs - Aldo "Markley" (2011)

So I realize that they're not 100% "my style" (if we can say i have a specific style...), but I'm so in love with the clog trend, and these are surprisingly easy to walk in...

What do we think?

Here's to the Long Weekend!

2011-05-23T20:06:00.002-04:00

Hope all you Canadians had a fabulous long weekend!
Mine was filled with BBQ's, ferris wheels, cottages, and will end this evening with fireworks... (I'm hoping both literal and figurative!)

blouse - Jacob (2010); jeans - Dynamite (2011); necklace - Smart Set (2010);
wedges - Aldo (2011)

In Praise of Skirts

2011-05-19T14:00:00.000-04:00

I love the way a skirt can make me feel instantly sexier. When I first started blogging I would hardly ever wear them, unless they were made of jean, but I’m so glad other bloggers turned me on to them!

It highlights my waist, the fuller ones hide a belly after large lunches, and you can’t help but want to twirl in it. Who cares if it’s pouring buckets out and people look at you like you’re crazy? I do what makes me feel good, and yesterday deserved a good skirt.

cardigan - Zara (2010); tee - Swap (2011); skirt - Zara (2010);
boots - Sirens (2010)

The disco ball on the ceiling looks like tha chain that I'm wearin'

2011-05-16T10:35:00.003-04:00

We were totally teased last week with the beautiful weather! This past weekend was awful, cold, and wet. Seriously Spring, you need to make up your mind. Poor Coco does not like the rain at all. It makes house-training a whole lot harder too!

My step-mother lent me Brad Pattison's book "unleashed" yesterday on dog training and I'm already half way through it. He's such a clever guy, and very easy to read. While I don't agree with everything he says (i LIKE giving my little girl treats when she's done somethign I'm impressed with, and I hardly think it's fair to keep my dog off the furniture when my cat, Milo, has free reign over the entire house) I do completely agree with his thoughts on asserting yourself as the alpha in the relationship, and how dogs respond best to non-verbal commands. Coco's already a pro on her leash and definitely is aware of when she does something I don't approve of. Whether you have a dog at home already, or are even considering making the addition to your family, I highly recommend picking this book up.

Also, how bomb is this necklace I recently re-found amongst boxes of junk? Awesome, I know. I'll get a better shot of it next time, I swear.

tee - Winners (2011); jeans - Tommy Hilfiger (2011); discoball - LeChateau (2009);
wedges - Fergie (2009)

title courtesy of Good Charlotte's "keep your hands off my girl"

Spring in my Step

2011-05-12T09:43:00.000-04:00

I have no idea what happened to this post. I definitely posted this outfit, even my facbook log says it was posted May 12th... and then it just disappeared! I don't really remember what I wrote, but I'm pretty sure the jist of it was that after much contemplation, I love this skirt.

cardigan - Zara (2010); tee - Aeropostale (2010); belt - Smart Set (2010);
skirt - Thrifted (2010); wedges - Aldo (2011)

It's Puppy Love!

2011-05-11T09:43:00.000-04:00

I’m really good at disappearing for long periods of time, aren’t I? At least I have good excuses…. Usually.
I would love for you all to meet the newest addition to my family, Miss Coco Pasqualina!
I’ve wanted a dog for as long as I can remember and thoroughly did my homework. I decided on a little pug because their lifestyle suits my own, and let’s face it, they’re so damn ugly that they’re adorable. I originally went to a pug rescue as I would love to give an abandoned animal a loving home, but my applications were never approved because I have no experience with dogs. I will definitely keep Under My Wing Pug Rescue in mind for my next one though.
Of course her name is an homage to the eternal icon Gabrielle Coco Chanel, but the “Pasqualina” was so dubbed by my lovely gma who claimed that she had a good friend back in Italy with a scrunched-up face just like little Coco’s who went by that name, and now refuses to call her anything else. Haha, she’s a lovely woman sometimes, isn’t she?

Anyways, I assume having a new puppy is along the lines of having a small child. She wakes me up at crazy hours during the night, ALWAYS wants to play, and is teething, so she insists on chewing everything! Fortunately, no shoes were harmed… yet.

I'm completely and totally in love!

Let's Get Political

2011-05-03T10:13:00.000-04:00

The federal election is finally over.

While I am NOT impressed with the fact that the Conservatives are now governing with a majority government, I am incredibly happy that the NDP is the official opposition. I have always been a socialist, to the point in university where my views were often referred to as borderline communist. No, I don’t believe that the government should be involved in all of our affairs, but the division of equity among citizens, both Canadian and American, has been unjust at best for the longest time. Is it too much to ask for both small businesses and International organizations to be granted the same benefits? For wait times at hospitals for those without the monetary means to be reasonable? For children to be granted a fair and equitable chance at an education despite the area they grew up in, or their social upbringing? For those without higher education to still be given opportunities for employment and advancement without big business merely searching for a way to satisfy stakeholders and increase profits?

Yes, I am a student of business, trying to become an accountant, and a shameless consumer whore, but profits are by no means my bottom line. Sustainability, job security, continuous education, and fair measurement of achievement, have always been priorities.

We can only wait and see how the next couple of years unfold, but I for one am glad that Layton, his glorious mustache, and his left wing views are finally given a voice.

Oh, and since this is a style blog, I believe an outfit is in order.

button down - Walmart (2011), skirt - BCBG (2009), heels - Aldo (2010)

Hats Off to the Royal Couple

2011-04-29T18:15:00.004-04:00

With all the crazy hats and fascinators I saw today I thought a hat of my own was completely appropriate. Clearly mine isn't as fabulous, but I love it nonetheless.

This skirt was a Salvation Army find for $6. Love it, but not quite sure how to transition it into the spring because of the colour and the weight... any ideas?

hat - Walmart (2011), tank - Winners (2011), necklace - Smart Set (2010),
skirt - Thrifted (2011), wedges - Chinese Laundry (2010)

Just a Generation Gap?

2011-04-28T10:39:00.004-04:00

I know I rant about work incessantly, but give me a minute, I’m going somewhere with this…

Whenever I mention the monotony of my job to anyone of an older generation I am met with the same response: all jobs are like that; repetitive and eventually boring, and there will inevitably be people you don’t like working with.

While I guess I can agree that I won’t always like all of my coworkers, it sort of depresses me to think that no matter what, I’m doomed to a life of ultimately hating my job.

Is it this generation that has the attention span of a goldfish, and therefore can’t put up with being bored all the time?

Is it our lack of work ethic? I know I didn’t have to till the fields in the hills of Italy like my grandmother, but I’ve never been one to shy away from a challenge.

Am I being completely idealistic in thinking that there is actually a position out there that will keep me entertained for more than a year?

What are your jobs like, readers? Can you relate to the boredom, or have you found what fulfills you in life? How do you keep things fun and fresh in your professions?

Wearing a turtleneck is like being strangled by a really weak guy.

2011-04-24T12:09:00.001-04:00

Happy Easter to those of you who celebrate! I wish you a day filled with chocolate and Jesus. He's a good guy, check him out.

Anyhoo, I realize what I'm wearing isn't the festiv-y-est, but the turtle neck was necessary... can I ask you dear bloggers, when was the last time you sported a hickey? I'm pretty sure I was still in high school the last time the happened! While slightly embarrassing, yes, it also means things with Mr. Accountant are going just swimmingly. It also gives me a new challenge... seeing how creative I can be in covering this bad boy up for work!

blouse - Dynamite (2009)
belt - Smart Set (2010)
beads - Rickis (2009)
jeans - Dynamite (2011)
watch - Guess (2010)
wedges - Michael Kors (swap 2010)

Ottawa Fashion Week F/W 11

2011-04-23T14:00:00.000-04:00

I know it was a month ago now, but I’m finally getting around to a fashion week review. Better late than never!

I was only there for one of the 3 nights due to my busy schedule, but I loved every second of it. The evening started out with ElizBourk. Her esthetic was sportswear with a bit of a glam twist. I loved all the faux fur accents and little winter accessories. However I feel like the collection was almost better suited to a spring/summer show, had it not been for the colors chosen and the accessories. I don’t think I’ll be going bare legged and mini anytime next winter… this is Canada after all.

The following show was Serendipity by Kelsey McIntyre. Her 70s esthetic was so on trend with the Paris and New York shows. The midi skirts and how she translated the alpine sweater trend onto jersey dresses and blouses were right up my alley! Not to mention the adorable little owls, which made me want to buy that glorious skirt in every color.

She closed her show with a beautiful bridal gown done up in feathers, with a corseted back. If I were ever to consider a winter wedding, it would be an absolute dream to wear, maybe paired with a little lace stole?

And of course Rachel Sin who I love, and wore to the event. I love her easy glamour and architectural details. The details on every dress blew me away, and of course, pink, black and gold, will always be my color palette of choice.
Absolutely breathtaking.

Can't wait til next season!

I'm addicted to the way I feel when I think of you... too much green to feel blue.

2011-04-15T14:00:00.000-04:00

Getting back in the dating game after being in a long term relationship is both exciting and scary.

Do I look okay? Does he think I’m laughing too much? Can he tell I’m nervous? Will I have unexplainable bouts of verbal diarrhea?

We take for granted the ease of conversation in an established relationship, but that like anything else will become easier once the initial “getting to know you” phase has passed. My evening was both awkward and awesome as Sydney would say. Awkward: the amount of gutterballs I rolled during the first game. Awesome: The way he smiled and laughed with me every time it happened. Awkward: Not knowing whether to high five or hug after an amazing strike. Awesome: Getting both. Awkward: Sitting with the elderly in the bowling alley lounge for lack of a better place to go. Awesome: Getting so lost in conversation you fail to notice the staff starting to close up around you. Awkward: First goodbyes. Awesome: An all too sweet goodbye kiss.

Here’s to many more awkward/awesome dates in my future. It's good to be back in the game. Whether this one works, or I get to have a few more firsts with someone new, I'm sure it will be quite the experience.

cardigan - BCBG (2009)
dress - Winners (2011)

ruffles & lace

2011-04-11T22:20:00.004-04:00

Another crazy weekend has come and gone.
Have you ever noticed that the weekends you plan to do so much just fly by and nothing ever ends up being accomplished?
Yeah... laundry's not done, half of my clothes are still in boxes, and there are still clean dishes in the dishwasher from Friday.
But i did go to Winners and score this awesome lacy tank for $6.
Funny how our priorities get twisted, isn't it?

cardigan - Winners (2011)
belt - Winners (2011)
belt - Vintage (mine since 2010)
skinnies - Smart Set (2010)
wedges - Chinese Laundry (2010)

Back in Black... and White.

2011-04-09T20:16:00.001-04:00

I am absolutely LOVING my new house

These last few weeks have been a huge pile of crazy, but I’d be lying if I said that it’s been anything short of wonderful. Unpacking is tiresome but exciting at the same time. Finding new places for things, getting reorganized, and picking up little odds and ends has been fun for someone like me who loves such things, yet there’s still so much left to do! You always underestimate I think how much things will cost and how much space is needed to house your odds and ends. To top it all off I have my second of four exams tomorrow morning so I’ve been squeezing in studying time all over the place. Of course, I’ve still been getting dressed every day (yes, I’m doing all this without taking a single day off work), but all my free time has gone to that instead of blog stalking like I would much rather be doing. I know I’m behind on both a Monthly Money Check Up post and a new Blog Stalker, but once things calm down around here, I’ll get right back on track.

vest - Dynamite (2009)
tee - F21 (2009)
trousers - Mexx (2010)
heels - Guess (2007)

I'll be visiting you all soon!

No Time to Slow Down!

2011-03-23T13:58:00.001-04:00

I know I’m always going on about how busy I am, but this week especially it’s true.

Last night I received the keys to my new house *pause here for my happy dance!* so between work, homework, and packing, I have had ZERO time for life. But don’t think that means I missed out on the fashion shows last weekend! I promise you a review will be coming soon, but I’m one of those people who have to do things in chronological order, so here’s an older outfit that I never got around to posting.

blouse - Jacob (2010)
cardigan - Smart Set (2010)
jeans - Dynamite (2011)
chunky heels - Spring (2011)

I’m going to try to get to my review by the weekend, but there’s no guarantee as I don’t even think I have internet at home until Sunday.

Wish me luck with the big move :)

Balla Life Style

2011-03-18T18:43:00.003-04:00

So I kiiiinda forgot yesterday was St. Patrick's Day. I know, I know, what kind of alcoholic am I if I forget our most important holiday? So as you can see, I had no green on. So I thought I should hold a green bottle to make up for it. That's how festive I am.

Totally unrelated, but equally cool, I bought a washer & dryer!
I know, you're completely envious right now.
What can I say? That's the kind of balla life style I lead.

button down - Smart Set (2010)
cardigan - Zara (2010)
skirt - Zara (2010)
boots - Sirens (2010)

Tonight also marks the beginning of fashion weekend here in Ottawa!
Unfortunately I won't be there tonight, but you'd better believe I'll be front row tomorrow for Rachel Sin! Can't Wait!

Sheer & Belted

2011-03-15T19:43:00.000-04:00

It seems like almost every time I sit down to write I have a complaint about something, so I’m going to try my very best to be positive and list the good things that are happening right now.

· I had the day off yesterday, so it’s like I have a four day work week!

· I practically have the whole house to myself because my mother & grandparents are on a well deserved cruise.

· The closing date on my townhouse is in SIX DAYS!

· I’m making delicious pasta carbonara for dinner, and let’s face it, bacon makes everything better.

blouse - Jacob (2010)
belt - Dynamite (2010)
jeans - Smart Set (2010)
boots - Spring (2011)

Basic is Sometimes Best

2011-03-10T08:25:00.000-05:00

I wish this awful weather would make up its mind! There has been so much snow these last few days. And here I thought it was almost spring. Ah well. Although I can’t wait to pull out pretty floral dresses, I’m quite happy that I get some more wear out of my pretty boots before I have to pack them away for the season.

Yesterday’s outfit was pretty simple. I bought this sweater/tunic thing a few days ago when I went shopping with the girls and thought it was a perfect basic to add to my closet. Although it’s not very exciting, it has lots of remixing possibilities, which is always a good thing.

I’m also looking to make a long maxi skirt without much volume. Should it be just a basic tube with an elastic waist? If anyone has seen a good tutorial, I’d appreciate if they were to pass it on J

top - Dynamite (2011)
skinnies - Gap (2010)
heels - Aldo (2010)